Life is good. I keep saying I’m not quite where I want to be yet– but are we ever? And yet I know I’m getting there, because I’m moving towards “happier”. It’s a deliberate step forward — I’m not waiting for “happy” to find me. I’m making it happen.
I have much to be grateful for as I hit this birthday milestone, and a few weeks back I started this project for the year I’m calling the Gift of 50. (Please see the navigation bar.). I have tried to make a list of 50 “gifts” to give back and pay my good fortune forward in thanksgiving for being where I am now.
Postcards on their way. I have been collecting postcards since I was 17 and have amassed a modest collection, but through the years, I have acquired postcards which are not within my collecting category. I recently rejoined a Philippine Postcrossing group and am well on my way to finding a home for the postcards I don’t want to keep.
It feels good to be able to give someone a card or two (or more) from the cards in my collection which would otherwise just gather dust and turn yellow without much love from me. I have found the recipients, so I am sorting and putting away the postcards in “packets”, and have started sending out individual ones to those who prefer their postcards sent that way.
As a collector, I know how it feels to receive something to add to your collection, so I am trying to spread the love so to speak. I am happy to have had the chance to make new friends along the way, and hopefully trim my collection substantially by this time next year.
Chicken sandwiches are in demand, more so since a Chick-fil-a opened nearby. So far, two meals given out. I’m still iffy about writing about it, though, although one was impactful in a meaningful sense because I did it while Angelo was with me. It felt good, he said — and I’m glad to have made that impression. Paying forward the blessings by sharing with others is one of my goals in doing the Gift of 50.
It’s not just about being good — but being good in a way that makes a difference even to just one individual.
In the mail. I have two snail mail cards in the mail: one to a friend who celebrated a birthday, and one to a classmate from way back who is currently undergoing medical challenges. I have a second dear friend in the latter category for whom I have a card which will be going out, too. I have always said time and again that there is something about receiving something you can hold through the post, in this day and age of electronic correspondence. Nothing beats being able to go back to what was written and said in the card without having to flip a device. The correspondence is a gift by itself which one can touch and come back to over and over again.
It doesn’t sound like much but I feel I’m moving in the right direction and actually making this happen.. The lunch I had hoped to have with possibly a newfound friend has been scheduled and I am looking forward to that. I am making my ear candy and other little gifts. There is a bigger project or two I’m also working on and hoping to get off the ground within the next 11 months or so. I’ll keep you posted..