Closing out 20 for 2020

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Last year, I vowed that I will not wait as long as I did in January of 2020 (ended up publishing the original post on the 20th), and instead write my next list earlier in the month. But of course, before I can do that, I am obligated to give an update on how the previous list went. (Plus, I don’t have the avatar for 2021 yet.)

I started this list a couple of years ago and even gave it its own spot in the navigation bar above, where you will find the previous lists. As I had written before, this is a list that hasn’t changed much but which I like to keep to sort of give me some guideposts for the coming year. I don’t like making resolutions — I prefer to be specific and set goals. There’s a few staples and an addition or two- just tweaking the list a bit to adjust to the times. Rather than elaborate on each attempt or success, I’ll spare you the agony of reading through my excuses and simple focus on the things I actually did.

1. Read six books. – Epic fail, although I did begin reading maybe 3-4 books. Totally needs work.

2. Travel to one destination outside the tri-state area. – I was actually planning a day trip, if not an overnight at least, and then the pandemic hit. End of story.

3. Learn something new via an actual class. This one is a work in progress, although I have been taking lessons via Audible trying to learn another language. Marginally a success in terms of the effort, but nothing completed by the year’s end.

4. Take better care of myself by exercising, losing more weight. MAJOR SUCCESS WITH THIS ONE. (You can see how proud I am of being able to claim this!). I gained 15 lbs during the first half of the confinement of the pandemic in 2020, lost it and another 5 lbs below my prepandemic weight (another yay!).. and now, while I continue to be a work in progress, I am walking 10000 steps everyday and eating better. The weight loss has been thwarted by all the holidays the last couple of weeks, but I can confidently proclaim that I am taking better care of myself now. This is something which I hope to continue into 2021.

5. Visit Central Park all four seasons. Two out of the four seasons was better than last year’s, and I am on track to try for all four this year. The fact that there was a long period of time when I confined myself to my home impacted the spring. I made it there during the summer but totally missed out on fall. And Winter, well, one of these days.

Central Park Summer 2020

6. Crafting reboot. I think one of the things I am most grateful for during our home confinement was that it gave me time to hone my sewing skills in creating masks, and then I found new ways and materials to work on for the shop. Surprisingly, there has been traffic and sales despite the pandemic. I did shy away, though, from other crafts that entailed longer periods of time such as crocheting or knitting. My art journal has flourished and I am raring to start a new one. All in all, it has been a very productive year.

7. Destash more systematically. When I wrote about this originally, I was really thinking of smaller items to destash — like books and shoes, etc. During the last quarter of the year, I’ve actually parted with at least two boxes of clothing and other household items that were otherwise still useful but just gathering dust in bags or boxes. Or I had kept because I thought they might be of use some day — things like those left over pieces from glass sets and plates that were somehow forgotten when we switched to another design. They have found a new home somewhere. Even the coffee table that predated my arrival here in the US has found its way to the dumpster in our community, and who knows, someone might’ve found use for it and taken it home. I will write about this another time because it was not just more space that I got in return, but a sense of goodwill towards others. Happiness.

8. Work on the Gift of 54. This one totally got eclipsed by the pandemic. So there were no gifts to give away to celebrate my 54th birthday. Maybe for the 55th, I might go local after having found a facebook group that caters to New Yorkers in need. Fingers crossed.

9. Write more. I always think of this as being able to write more regularly — and I have to admit there were periods of silence again here in my corner. But on the whole, I think I wrote more this year and I’m not going to beat myself up for not having done more.

10. Keep snail mail alive by writing a letter or sending out a card at least once a month. I was able to send the letters out, but mostly during the end of the year, instead of at the frequency I had aimed for. One thing that the pandemic has made me realize is that we have forgotten how to communicate on a more personal level through the mail, and I will continue writing in 2021.

11. Rebind my art journal, begin a new one. I actually found another art journal I had completely forgotten about, predating the altered book that I had meant to rebind. This is something I hope to do the first quarter, including the art journal I began in 2020 which I will end soon to make way for another in 2021. This was a very fulfilling exercise for me, because I have always wanted to continue expressing myself in my personal art — with all the fold outs and the lettering and all my scribbling.

12. Sample something new or visit a new restaurant or place (i.e., museum, intallation, etc.) and write about it. Again, eclipsed by the pandemic and the restrictions it brought upon us. However, I did manage to continue to find new things to sample, but not quite in the same frequency I had hoped. I’m probably going to let this go this coming year given the restrictions and safety concerns about actually going out and about.

13. Publish a postcard set. One day soon.

14. Visit at least one lighthouse. This was actually part of the trip I was planning during the earlier part of the year. Maybe in 2022.

15. Encode my poetry. Totally forgot about this.. but again, a maybe.

16. Visit more blogs / IG accounts. The point was to read other people more. Epic fail. I did visit one or two but nowhere near the one a month I was hoping for. I need to be more methodical about this.

17. Do a fundraiser for Barangay San Vicente. My mother hails from a very poor community in Sorsogon in the province of Bicol and I was hoping to do a holiday if not a start of the school year fundraiser. Again, derailed by the pandemic, but in my heart and mind.

18. Watch a live show or concert once a quarter. Another time when Broadway reopens, and the concert halls let us in again.

19. Undertake some home improvement projects. Work in progress, but not totally sidelined by the pandemic. I am excited to continue with the work my son and I have started for a new look to our home.

20. Rework the Etsy shop. I have started creating pieces again even as I write this, and I am thinking of new designs to put in the store. It was most heartening that despite the pandemic, there was traffic and actual sales. Imagine how much more if I could just get into a rhythm about producing new items to sell.

So now that I have written my final update on last year’s list, I can work on writing 21 for 2021 — hopefully before this coming weekend. (That gives me 5 days.. plenty of time.)

A third on the “Yay!” Side wasn’t too bad, if you ask me. I will have to let another third (or even as much as half the list) go due to the expected restrictions that will continue to be with us in the light of our new Covid reality, despite the vaccine. So my 2021 list will probably have a totally different thrust — or focus, and I am hoping to put the ones I will take out back in 2022. Maybe.