We woke up to a pretty chilly morning — considering it is summer already, this is indeed a welcome relief. Forecasters say summer isn’t going to be scorching as last year’s which is good, but with weather being unpredictable and all, you’ll never know. We can just hang on to our optimism.
I have quite a few things on my plate this weekend, more so with a wedding next week. I need a new dress. While I dress up for work, I don’t really attend formal gatherings, and the last one we went to was a sweet 16 party which meant a black dress was elegant and acceptable. But wear black to a wedding? I thought I’d do my research — while the more practical and unconventional view seems to be wearing black is fine, a little voice in my head reminded me that weddings are supposed to be happy occasions, hence, you are supposed to veer away from anything too somber or akin to mourning. Fine. So the black dresskend. will have to wait for another formal occasion. (And I guess the black sandals, too..) I have to seriously find that dress this weekend.
I’ve been doing my research so I have fair idea of where I can get a decent one that will not make my pata arms a bit inconspicuous. Despite being well endowed, I don’t think a sleeveless or strapless ensemble will work. I’m looking at getting a dress with sleeves or a shrug at least. I saw an elegant formal dress suit at another store I will get if all else fails. So I’ve told Alan I have to get a new dress this weekend. He’s napping on the sofa. I guess this means I’ll have to wait for him to wake up later, then we can be off.
The little boy, meanwhile, has been making lambing all morning. We did some finger painting and we’re sending one home to Grandma. He’s been pretty good really.
Back to the wedding.. this whole business of celebrating two people getting married can be quite an expensive affair. It’s somewhere upstate so we are checking into a hotel for the night. Since we cannot leave Angel home alone, we are bringing my mother-in-law with us so she and Angel can stay there while we are at the reception. It’ll also give father and son to enjoy the pool together, and then we can have a family brunch the next morning before returning to the city.
Not that we mind — the bride is someone we have known a long time at Alan’s hotel — we have even taken to taking her with us out once or twice on weekends. Even when she moved to another company, she continued to be on our list of friends invited to special occasions. (She was at Angel’s baptism, and Alan’s last party.) I even offered to create wedding CD souvenirs for her — but they politely declined as they had decided to make a donation to a favorite charity instead. Fortunately, Alan doesn’t have to wear a tux so we don’t have that expense to worry about. We are sparing ourselves the agony of going through the bridal registry and giving a cheque. After all, the bride is a dear friend and we like the groom — so I have told Alan it was best to go the dollar route.
Just as a safety net, I have ordered something from an online/magazine catalogue. The thing is the dress is in S-M-L-XL and I don’t know how the L and XL will look on me since I have no option to fit it, so I ordered both. Thanks to the liberal return policy here, I have no qualms doing that knowing I can return the item/s I don’t like. For good measure, I ordered the matching clutch and shoes. (Rolling eyes up to the heavens..) It cost a small fortune, but thank God for deferred billing options. (Big sigh of relief..)
I will still look around for a dress.. again, with the return policy in mind, I know if I buy it and it turns out to be not the dress for this wedding, we can always bring it back. The trick is not to take any tags off and to be careful when fitting it to make sure it is returnable. So I will go and wear my suman underwear (thanks to the magic of body girdles!) so that I can have a better appreciation of how I will look in the dress with all the unsightly spillage tucked away. I would’ve loved to get an offwhite dress so I can wear the slingback satin beaded pumps I had made specially for my wedding 7 years ago (and which I have NEVER ever used again for lack of an occasion or dress to go with it…), but it might actually be cheaper and more practical to get a dress in another color. And we have a second wedding reception to attend in August! (While I wouldn’t mind wearing the same dress, unfortunately, it’s another colleague of Alan’s from the office so there’s going to be some similarities in the crowd — so the dress cannot do a repeat performance.)
Wish me luck!